So while in a relationship someone tells you they are shallow, I say if your as shallow as a kiddy pool and know how to swim you will drown others. Red flags fly, sirens ring loud, and the alarm is on repeat. I am watching someone I love, learn about relationships, life, hurt, betrayal. I figure one has to live thru it to learn from it. I warn him, I identify the forseen however, my caution flags go unseen, to be 18.